Tag: <span>digital age</span>

Tag: digital age

Movie Tip: Incredible “NYAD” on Netflix, also briefly Flags CSA in Swimming

It is an incredible story about an amazing woman, achieving an impossible feat. My mother heard about her when I was a kid, and I knew her name from news when I was a mother myself. Epic. And Real Life. Dianne Nyad, american long distance swimmer, swam not pools but …

It’s a Wrap! Taboo Talk at Elementary School & The Video That Blew Us All Away

The Christmas season is upon us, and one of the year’s highlights for me was the Taboo Coffee Talk at Elementary School De Schelp. Wowza! Arranged as part of their “Ouderkamer” Series (where an elementary school opens their teacher’s lounge for parent’s once a week for parent connecting, themes, creative …

“IDK What to Do” – Teen Boys Incresingly Victims of Sextortion

Whether it’s sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, or blackmail with nude images. It’s not just girls. Boys are also affected, devastated. And it’s happening more often than you think. The whole boystoo is a social/cultural concept I myth bust in every “Prevent It!” workshop.

24yr accused of blackmailing 100+ minors with nude images

Nude Images & Blackmail.

It’s a real dangerm, especially for youth, in the age of digital sharing of everything from personal data to private messages and images. A landmark announcement from Dutch Public Prosecutor’s Office (Openbare Ministerie) re. a 24jr old young man who seduced young girls into sending him naked pictures of themselves, and then threatened to go public with these images if they didn’t pay him.

Mental and social fall-out for the victims is horrendous.

I recall the young boy who killed himself after a naked picture of his was posted online. While looking up the case, I found more similar stories. #heartbreaking

Tip: Teach kids, from an earlier-than-you-think age, to be mindful of images they send or post on the internet or social media. And that posting nude images is a REAL red flag danger and action.

Tip: I use a phone cam mini cover (a glitter plush sticker, but there are more official items with actual sliders). These are good teaching tools to discuss and help remind about boundaries–physical AND digital. <3

 

Article from Nu.nl here: https://www.nu.nl/binnenland/6247670/man-24-verdacht-van-afpersen-ruim-honderd-meisjes-met-naaktbeelden.html
PS: Check the reactions in the Comments of the nu.nl article—

What is Grooming & Quick Signals

Proteges, shoe-in’s, there’s an age-old practice of preparing someone for a position. The same is true in the CSA world, that is, grooming a child for abuse. This makes them more open to it, or that they may not even see it as abuse (e.g the story pop singer Rita …

What’s the deal with Pics & Permissions? 3 Quick Tips for Parents & Youth Workers

Did you see that guy standing in the back by the pillar? He’s got a big bag and it looks like a super wide lens is coming out. What’s up? With many extracurricular and meet-ups moving outside under Covid & government regulations, we’re encountering new dimensions to privacy. Many people …

PARENTS: Breakthrough article on how easy things can go wrong for kids online.

Article first appeared on CNN, read it here. The case shows, above all, how important it is for parents to have open communication with their kids and never make them feel ashamed for things they see or get involved in.. “Most of all, I am disappointed in my parents.” Ji-o …

Healthy Sex vs. Porn Sex in a snap (via protectyoungminds.org)

Protect Young Minds back at it with spot-on info. FTND/ Fight The New Drug has been flagging science-based harms of porn and the objectification and violence against some of the participants.. its CRITICAL our kids know porn is a terrible teacher.